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Bueller? Bueller? Anyone? Bueller?

Yeah, I realize that I have not been on this here blog in a long time. The days of blogging twice a day have morphed into blogging twice a year, or so it seems. I am not making any predictions about future blogging plans, but I can at least say it is my hope to write more in the weeks and months to come. About that personal update . . .

Seven years ago last week I moved to Southwest Florida to join the pastoral team at Grace Baptist Church (Cape Coral, FL). I cannot begin to tell how you much I have grown and learned during this time. It began as a “baptism by fire” when my fellow pastor Tom Ascol was struck by lightning, and it really did not slow down from there. During this season of ministry, a church planting network was started (2009), a new daughter church was planted (2010), an international collective was started (2012), and a non-profit organization was formed (2014).

My roles and responsibilities seemingly piled up year after year, pressuring me to gain more clarity and direction in my life and service within the local church. In order to bring alignment and focus to my work and support, I formed Gospel Systems, Inc. in the spring of 2014 as a non-profit organization to house both The Haiti Collective and PLNTD Network. In our early stages, it was the consensus of our board as well as elders of Grace for me to transition full-time to leading GSi at the beginning of 2015, completing a six-month transition where I would help lead our elders to find a new pastor to replace my work.

As this transition was completed, I came away with a real sense of gratefulness in what God had done. But at the same time, I went through a period of wrestling that proved to be one of the most profound times of brokenness in my life. God used this time to reveal His faithfulness and my utter dependence on Him in massive ways, and He also made it clear that the transition was not complete. He was calling us onward and forward.

Over the past several months, we prayed for God’s leading and direction with this re-commissioning of sorts. At the beginning of May, we became convinced that we should relocate to the Nashville, TN area, specifically the town of Spring Hill. While we do not have a definite timetable, our plans are to move within the next couple of months and set up a new office for GSi in Tennessee (while keeping the one we have here in FL,) where I will continue to focus on building The Haiti Collective and PLNTD Network.

We are excited about this new chapter in our lives, and we are also very sad to leave our church family, neighborhood, and city that we have called home for the past seven years. Our hearts are heavy, our minds are filled with memories of what God has done, and our lives are marked by so many who have embraced us with open arms.

Brister 100 Logo for MailchimpWe also would ask that you pray for us. We are venturing out in faith to lay hold of all that God has in store for us, and we would humbly ask that you consider joining us for the journey ahead. I have created a website called The Brister 100, which is a network of 100 individuals, families, organizations, or churches who we are asking God for in order to partner with us and support us in this new chapter of our lives.

I have been blogging here at this site for over a decade now, and Lord willing, I intend to continue in the future. Throughout this time, I have chosen not to go the advertising route or charge people for anything I share (documents, articles, or other resources). Having said that, if any of you have benefited from what I’ve attempted to contribute, I would humbly like to ask you to be a part of The Brister 100 and consider supporting us as we move forward with what God has called us to do.

Here are some specific ways you can connect with us:

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3.  Share with others you know about this opportunity and invite them to learn more.

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You Are My Son, and I Love You

Tim Brister —  February 22, 2015 — 2 Comments

Today was the start of baseball season in Southwest Florida. After opening ceremonies, my two boys played a double header as part of the festivities. It was the first time my 5 yr old son to go head-to-head with the pitching machine. At his first at-bat, he surprised himself with a line drive past the third baseman, and I was super excited and proud of him. The following three at-bats did not fare too well as he struck out all three times.

As someone who has always been highly competitive, I always want my boys to do excel in whatever they do, including playing baseball. The downside to that, and the temptation I have struggled to avoid, is responding to them based on their performance. If they perform well, they see the pleasure of their dad. If they make mistakes and struggle, they hear the disappointment of their dad (“c’mon son!).

As a Christian who believes the gospel should permeate every area of my life, there are more and more blind spots that I’m learning to see more clearly. When it comes to baseball, I realized that my sincere attempts to make them better players was not honoring the gospel. My response to them was based on their performance (good works), and their identity as a baseball player was more dominant in their thinking than being my sons.

Today, I started to make a change and repent of this legalistic approach to coaching my boys. I want my boys to know, more than anything else, that they are my sons, and I love them. And that love is not based on what they do or do not do, but because of who they are. They are mine. So every time they get ready to play the game, I pull them aside and have a talk with them. Before when I stressed a litany of techniques, I am learning to look them eye-to-eye and tell them, “Son, I am so proud of you. No matter what happens, how well you play today does not change how much I love you and delight in being your dad. I just want you to have fun and enjoy the game.” After a kiss on the forehead, I sent them off to do their best, and the smile that begun on my face transferred to a shy grin on theirs.

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The ALS Ice Bucket Challenge is a huge success by any standard. I don’t think there has been a more viral fundraising strategy that has saturated the streams of every person on social media. However, along with this success, there has also come some scrutiny over how this non-profit allocates its money for the causes it represents.

For example, as I came across my news feed on Facebook, someone had posted this article from Red Flag News where it is reported that 27% of the donations to ALS actually goes to research and cures. This, of course, is intended to be unacceptable for nonprofits. Then they proceed to do the financial breakdown of the salaries of organizational leaders to add fuel to the indignation, along with the mention that 14% of their incomes goes to fundraising.

Of course, what this is supposed to do is question the integrity of the organization, raise suspicion about its legitimacy, and call for more accountability and probes into its operations. In contrast, the article proceeds to talk about other organizations where the overhead is remarkably low, and one even where it is said that 100% of the money you give goes directly to the cause (high quality foods). Ah, yes, this is what we want, right?

But wait.

You see, that is exactly what I thought.

Until I started leading a nonprofit organization of my own.

Have you ever considered what an organization looks like where 100% of your money goes to the cause with nothing going to the organization? Have you ever wondered how the organization supports itself? How the leaders get paid? How the word even gets out that this organization exists and why its causes are worthy of your support? Most often we don’t because we are stuck with the “we want nonprofits with low overheads where all of our money goes to the cause” with little thought to the capacity of the organization or its ability to actually solve problems, change lives, and make lasting change.

Would you want a gift to an organization where 100% of your gift goes to feeding the poor if the organization making it happen only feeds a few children? Or would you want to give to an organization where a smaller percentage of your gift goes to the poor but the organization has a scale exponentially larger because you not only invested in the cause but the high-quality organization that is making it happen at massively larger capacity than the 100% gift organization? What matters most? The giving purist with little to no change or the powerhouse changing the world?

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DELIGHT

Tim Brister —  February 10, 2014 — 1 Comment

  • In the way of your testimonies I delight as much as in all riches. – Psalm 119:14
  • I will delight in your statutes; I will not forget your word. – Psalm 119:16
  • Your testimonies are my delight; they are my counselors. – Psalm 119:24
  • Lead me in the path of your commandments, for I delight in it. – Psalm 119:35
  • for I find my delight in your commandments, which I love. – Psalm 119:47
  • Let your mercy come to me, that I may live; for your law is my delight. – Psalm 119:77
  • If your law had not been my delight, I would have perished in my affliction. – Psalm 119:92
  • Trouble and anguish have found me out, but your commandments are my delight. – Psalm 119:143
  • I long for your salvation, O Lord, and your law is my delight. – Psalm 119:174

What’s your relationship to God’s ways? Delighting in His testimonies.
What’s your relationship to God’s Word? Delighting in His law.
What’s your relationship to Christ’s kingly rule? Delighting in His commands.

May our Christian lives be marked with a dominant delight in God!

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I grew up in a churched culture. From the time I left the hospital until I graduated high school, I was put through every program, participated in every activity, and was faithful to every event our local church had to offer. Children’s church, R.A.’s (Royal Ambassadors), Bible Drill, Children’s & Youth Choir, Puppet Ministry, Youth Group/Ministry, Sunday School, Discipleship Training, Christmas/Easter Dramas…you name it, I was in it.

I was converted at the early age of 8, right in the middle of all the busy life a committed church-goer. Looking back, however, one of the most glaring (and I would add scandalous) omissions is that my church never taught me how to live. I knew how to do a ton of religious things, not the least of which was checking off the boxes on my tithe envelope, but when it came to living out my faith as a disciple of Jesus, I really had no clue. I just knew how to get in the system and let the system do its thing.

The System and Spirit Within Christendom

What this system has produced, rather unintentionally I might add, is a spirit of consumerism through the culture of Christendom. In this system, who you are (identity) is defined by what you do (performance). I am a Christian because I go to church, and the fruit of my faith is manifested in my participation and religious performances. This system works within Christendom because Christianity and culture has been syncretized so that being religious or good is tantamount to being a disciple of Jesus.

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